A Bar or Bat Mitzvah is a milestone that celebrates individual growth and the values of community, compassion, and responsibility. Through a project with the Friends of the Lone Soldier, teens can honor these values by supporting those who defend Israel.

We invite teens to dedicate their Bar/Bat Mitzvah project or class Tzedakah campaign to this meaningful cause. By supporting the Friends of the Lone Soldier, you’ll provide critical resources like meals, equipment, and emotional support to soldiers far from home. Together, we can ensure that no soldier stands alone.

Boy in a suit with kippah and tallit reading from a Torah scroll with a pointer, woman embracing him from behind.

Project Highlights

  • Create a personalized fundraising page

    Share your project with family and friends with your photo, Bar/Bat Mitzvah date, and personal message.

  • Connect with Lone Soldiers

    Meet soldiers virtually or in-person (when possible) and hear their inspiring stories.

  • Write Letters of Support

    Write heartfelt messages to uplift soldiers during their IDF service.

  • Be Creative

    Organize bake sales, mitzvah markets, or other events to raise funds.

Get involved.

For more ideas or to begin your project, contact us using the form below.

Celebrate with impact.

  • Simcha participation

    Incorporate Lone Soldier stories into your celebration décor by featuring photos and stories of Lone Soldiers at your event. Many families have also chosen to donate the cost of centerpieces to the Lone Soldier Center, replacing traditional floral or balloon arrangements with framed pictures and details about the Center’s impactful work. This gesture adds meaning to your celebration while supporting a cause close to your heart.

  • Visit and Volunteer

    If traveling to Israel, dedicate time to helping at the Lone Soldier Center or participating in on-the-ground projects. You may also wish to sponsor a meal while there and celebrate this moment together.

  • Share a video

    Our soldiers will say Mazal Tov and send a special video of gratitude for you to play at the celebration.

  • Sponsor meals

    Sponsor a Shabbat meal at one of our Lone Soldier Centers on the day of your simcha and we will celebrate with you in Israel!

These soldiers are our family - your family.